Bless Your Heart. And Do The Work
A Practical Guide to Personal Responsibility & Self-Leadership
by Christy Lynn Hicks

This isn’t another love-and-light self-help book.
It’s a grounded call to self-leadership.
If you’re tired of:
• Blaming your circumstances
• Collecting insight without changing behavior
• Calling yourself “stuck” while repeating the same patterns
• Talking about growth but avoiding the discomfort of action
This book is for you.
Rooted in the Yoga of Responsibility™, Bless Your Heart…And Do The Work is a practical framework for people who want their inner life and outer life to match.
This isn’t about perfection.
It’s about participation.
Through sharp reflection, real-life stories, and usable practices, Christy Lynn Hicks guides you through a clear progression:
Awareness.
Reckoning.
Embodiment.
Action.
Leadership.
You’ll learn how to:
• Align your behavior with your values
• Regulate your nervous system under pressure
• Communicate with clarity and integrity
• Build internal reliability instead of chasing external validation
• Make daily choices that reflect what actually matters
• Lead yourself before trying to lead anyone else
Blending ancient wisdom with modern psychology and real-world leadership, this book reframes responsibility not as blame, but as power.
Because awareness without action is just avoidance in a prettier outfit.
And when you stop waiting to be rescued…
You become steady.
You become reliable.
You become someone others can trust.
Bless your heart.
Now do the work.
About the Author:
Christy Lynn Hicks is a leadership speaker, educator, and creator of the Yoga of Responsibility™: a self-leadership framework integrating ancient yogic philosophy, nervous system science, and modern performance psychology.
After a decade in high-level corporate environments and fifteen years building and leading a thriving yoga studio community, Christy’s work bridges strategy and soul, structure and embodiment.
She teaches leaders, entrepreneurs, organizations and everyday humans how to align their values with their behavior and build internal reliability in a world that constantly shifts.
Known for her grounded presence, sharp insight, and unmistakable Southern clarity, Christy challenges people to stop outsourcing their authority and start living what they say matters.
She is the founder of ReliableMe™, a practical self-leadership methodology for developing congruence between word and action.
Her work lives at the intersection of personal responsibility, embodied leadership, and everyday devotion.